Real Talk: Social Media Monsters Part One

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 Since all of five people are reading this blog, I've come to some decisions. I'm gonna start saying whatever the hell I want, no holding back, no being polite for "business' sake, I'm about to get real. Really real. Because I'm tired of playing nice, sticking by the rules and keeping my mouth shut for fear of offending anyone. It hasn't gotten me very far. Fuck that shit.

The thing I wanna rant about today is social media. Instagram in particular. It used to be the one channel I enjoyed "having" to utilize, cuz it sure as hell wasn't gonna be Facebook. Anymore, Instagram feels like just a place where people try to one-up each other on things they have, how they look, or who they're with. And frankly, I'm sick up to my eyeballs of it. In fact, if my livelihood didn't depend on it, I would delete the whole freakin lot.

Is this really where we're at? Is this what we have come so far to become? It's not enough that people try to 'keep up with the Joneses' within their social circles and neighborhoods, now we gotta do it with basically complete strangers too? Why? This is something I'll never understand, nor frankly, do I want to.

Friends and acquaintances think I'm strange for being a hermit, rarely leaving the house and never showing up to social functions. But what they don't realize is that I've made my home my sanctuary, exactly to the way it pleases me, not anyone else. So I can go days without leaving the house and not miss a thing. It seems more and more these days, people irritate me so much that I don't enjoy being out anyway. I guess I'm just grumpy in my old age..

But can you blame me? The world is really fucked up right now, and you know what, we've all been saying that for years. Only now, I believe it's more of a disaster than it's ever been. Because even though we've been through wars and devastation, poverty and loss as a nation, the real difference is how people treat each other now, and how little we help each other.

I'm not really here to offer up answers, this "new" way of blogging for me is going to be about things that have bothered me for quite awhile, that no amount of journaling has seemed to help resolve. Maybe the sheer idea of putting these words out there for all (5 of you) to read, helps make me feel a little better, and helps me cope with the batshit insanity of this current state of the world. We'll see.

But let's talk about that 'necessity' of Instagram. When I don't post items for sale, I make ZERO dollars. But even when I post stuff for sale, I'm in a constant battle of too much vs. not enough self promotion. I know what the so-called ratio is, and it doesn't make a damn bit of difference whether I follow it or not. I can't even begin to express how utterly fed up I am with this tedious ritual, and am looking for a way out. As I've already mentioned, I'm working on getting out of this business altogether, 15 years was a pretty good run. But making a living selling things online has become an increasingly impossible task, and the things that I have to do just to keep a steady flow of traffic to my website just doesn't seem worth it.

There will come a time when I desist from any and all social media as a whole, and I long for that day. But until I find other work to replace what little income I do make from selling online, it's a necessary evil. And it is evil. Maybe I'll have to resort to scheduling all of my Instagram posts so that I never really have to look at it, as much as I steer clear of any automated activity aside from auto-posting to Facebook, which you will NEVER find me lurking on.

End of part one.